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What do you understand and what questions might you have around faith: its role is in spiritual practice in general, its role in meditation? What do you have faith in? The difference between faith and belief, if any? These kinds of questions. I’m just going to throw that out as a general topic. If any of you have any questions about faith, I’d be very interested in them.
Student: How does faith apply to Buddhism?
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When you asked, “What is experiencing all this?” and you said to notice the shift, it was really weird because, what is it experiencing the thoughts? What’s the me factor in it?
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I’m realizing that I come highly predisposed to imbalance in my relationships. My natural tendencies and things I learned, in childhood are solitude and isolation, in which a relationship lives out in my mind more than it lives out in what you’re describing as “the richness of intimacy and interaction.” I think I’ve been aware of this in other ways, but as it relates to relationships I’m looking obviously to grow past that. If you could share anything, point me in the right direction?
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It’s really interesting through meditation, when we’re out in the world we can realize, “Oh, I’m just about to become really angry.” And you want to work on that, but it’s impossible. “Okay, I’m going to be really angry,” and you feel yourself starting to heat up. You can recognize it. That’s something you’ve talked about. But, there’s so many different levels of it. You think you’ve handled it, then all of a sudden it just comes back at you, this huge wave. And then, “Okay, I can work on it coming back.” Is there a strategy for letting some of it go? How do you steam out so that it doesn’t keep catching you?
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Is there a difference between rest and observe? The reason I ask the question, I’ve been taught to observe, watch my breath. For instance, in my mind, the way I think, I watch it, I observe it, and I don’t deal with it or experience it. I just watch it. When you say “rest,” which is the first time I’ve heard that expression in this context, that to me says immediately that I’m going to experience it. I’m going to involve myself in it in some way. So I guess my question is, what is the difference between the two?
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I would like to know how to bring the meditation into daily life. How, in the moment, to be able to respond rather than react? The more insecure and scared I feel, the less I remember—in the moment—to pause, and the more I respond habitually, usually not with kindness and compassion, unfortunately.
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My question is about a piece of advice that I’ve heard from you, Ken, on numerous occasions, namely: ‘In the face of confusion, go to the body.’ This seems like good advice. Yet sometimes the body seems to be giving contradictory messages. How is one to discern when the mind of the body is leading us to appropriate action and when it has been overcome by the force of pattern tendency?
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I was just curious, if you could spend a moment to define the differences between the various meditation techniques you mentioned like Theravadan and Vipassana. I’m wondering what the values are— different techniques, so there must be different values.
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I have a hard time when I meditate and I just keep getting distracted. I get into organizing those distractions: “Oh, that’s planning,” and “Oh, that was a worry,” and “Oh, that was a memory.” I get so caught up in labeling.
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Ken, I have two questions: Here’s the first one: if there is no shared experience and separation is an absolute, please explain this in terms of dependent origination.
The second part of the question: please explain awakening mind and conventional mind in terms of practical application to meditation and everyday life.
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For lay Western students with limited resources and busy lives, is the Vajrayana path recommended if one can’t do the three-year retreat, is unlikely to get to the completion or self-initiation stages, or has very limited access to his or her root Lama? One hears a lot about the higher tantras being the fastest path to enlightenment, but can one accomplish very much in this life given the limitations mentioned?
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I have no trouble becoming aware of my breath, of sounds, sensations, pain in the body, wind against my face. I have a little trouble with emotions, not always, but a lot of times I identify with them. Sometimes I can step out and say, “Ah, I’m getting angry,” and I can look at it as an observer. But what I have not been able to be an observer of my thoughts. It seems like when I’m thinking and the thoughts that I think, that’s who I am.
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For almost two years, my experience of practice, or life, is feeling like my heart is bleeding all day long, all the time. It doesn’t necessarily feel like a bad bleeding or a negative. It’s just very consistent. And, at first that felt like that was difficult or something I felt very conscious of. And now, it just is, but I’m relating to it in a way that doesn’t feel like I’m really resting. So I don’t quite know how to open up and rest because I feel like I’m going to lose something.
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Why do people leave a teacher? There surely are many reasons. I want to zero in on solid ones. I certainly understand if, say, there are scandals or if the student-teacher relationship somehow isn’t working out for one or both. But what I want to know is, why leave if there are no such problems? Do some students feel they’ve reached a plateau with a certain teacher?
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I was wondering if you would say something about what happens in spiritual organizations. My experience has been that, there’s usually some sort of a political mechanism operating that is not spoken and that causes people to do things that are completely opposite from what they’re professing
